My Thoughts on Using AI in Writing
Don’t. I assure you, you will not be “left behind” if you forswear it. You will see authors who churn out 100 books a month in predictable genres earning six figures, and if that’s really what you want to do, and readers really don’t care, then <shrug>. But you are not a writer, in that case. You are simply an AI prompter.
How to Write a Killer Query Letter in 2026
The first thing to understand is what a query does: Sell your book! Agents receive hundreds of queries per week. 1,000 per month is not unusual. As you can imagine, agents are skimming a lot. Something needs to grab them right away. It does you no good to have a fantastic story but a dull, pedestrian cover letter that fails to convey anything compelling.
No Time to Write? Conduct a Time Audit
One of the biggest complaints most writers have is that they have no time to write. This is understandable; in our daily, packed lives it can be difficult to get as much time as we’d like to write. Some of us manage a little bit every day, while wondering how to squeeze out more since our projects seem to be taking forever. Others look at their lives and think, “Well, 15 minutes to write must be nice!”
There are many reasons why we feel time-crunched, and the actual amount of hours in the day is only one part of the story. Although we may be able to squeeze in 15 minutes to write, it often takes a few minutes just to settle in and remember what we were working on. Or, we have some time, but we’re too physically or mentally exhausted to do anything like writing that takes mental energy.
It takes two things to have a regular writing practice: Priority and Intention.
10 Questions to Enhance Your Character Relationships
Recently I was reading a novel where the characters were flat. They talked, they did stuff, but aside from the opening scene (which was pretty compelling), they seemed to be cardboard people propelled around for the sake of the plot.
How to Avoid Pronoun Overload
We’re always told to write our characters with interiority. And it’s true, readers need to know a character’s thoughts. In most cases, at least in modern fiction, readers want to be inside the character’s head, knowing what they know, feeling what they feel.
The Case for Freewriting as Essential Practice
I was introduced to freewriting as a practice by Natalie Goldberg, in her seminal book, Writing Down the Bones. As someone who struggled to actually sit down and write, it was eye-opening to think that I didn’t need to have an idea, a scene, or a purpose in mind, other than just… writing, and seeing what came up.
Verbs of Inaction: How to Show, Not Tell
Recently I’ve been editing a manuscript that’s just about ready to go to the publisher. One of the final things I do is go through and search for all the "boring" verbs, which are mainly the ones that describe the five senses or existence directly:
Overcoming the Paradox of “Easy.”
Back when I was still working as a university administrator, I was tasked with finding an adjunct instructor for a course. With an abundance of talent out there, it’d be easy, right?
Wrong.
The Writer’s Life List
Have you ever written a Life List?
Basically, it’s simply a list of everything you’d like to experience or accomplish in your life. It can be anything you want – a Top Ten, a list of 50 or 100 Things To Do Before I Die... whatever moves you. It’s your list.
10 Fun Gifts for Writers – i.e., YOU
Okay, so it’s supposed to be the season of giving... to other people. But I’m sure I’m not the only one who isn’t averse to buying a little something for myself, especially if it’s not something other people are likely to buy for me (due to expense, impracticality, or “But I always get you X!”)
Below are some of my favorite things. Hopefully they’ll spark some ideas of your own:
How Do You Know When You’re Ready to Query (or Publish) Your Book?
Writer 1: I’ve finished! Okay, I’ve done a quick revision. I’ve read it through and it seems pretty good. I’ve had a few other people read it and say it’s like 80% done. I think I’m going to send it out – or self publish – and get on to the next thing. I just can’t look at this particular manuscript any longer.
Wisdom from Mel Robbins: The 5 Second Rule for Writers
To be clear right off the bat, Mel did not specifically talk about her 5-Second Rule, or anything else, in terms of writers. But in rereading her book, The 5-Second Rule, I realized that a lot of what she says can be especially helpful for writers and other creatives in getting out of their own way and making progress toward their goals.
10 Steps to Prepare for a Long Writing Sprint
Although the official NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) no longer exists, you may be preparing for a long writing sprint to close out the end of the year. For some people, adding the pressure of completing X number of words (the traditional 50,000 or some other number) feels like too much pressure to put on what is often the busiest time of year. For others, it’s the perfect time to think of pushing to complete a major project.
TED Secrets for Writers
I’ve been re-reading Carmine Gallo’s book, Talk Like TED: The 9 Public Speaking Secrets of the World’s Top Minds. In it, he goes through 9 guidelines that great TED speakers use to structure their talks in ways that make them memorable. They can be applied not only to public speaking, but to writing as well.
Your Fall 2025 Writing Plan
It’s that time of year again – back to school energy, the turning of the seasons into a cooler, crisper fall... and therefore time to think about what I’d like to accomplish, writing-wise.
Mokuso – The Gentle Art of Preparing Your Mind
There is a practice that originated in the martial arts in Japan called mokuso. It roughly means “silent” or “still” (moku) + “thinking” (so).
In karate, for example, students do it before class begins. You spend a few minutes meditating, deeply focusing the mind before starting practice.
Why Your Novel Needs a Clear Theme
One of the first questions I ask my coaching clients is, “What is the Point?” In other words, the theme of your book. What do you want the reader to take away? It can be very simple, like “Good triumphs over evil” or “Love conquers all” - in fact, the simpler the better, even if it’s a cliche. A million stories have been written around these cliched themes, and nobody has gotten sick of them yet.
“Short Time, Many Times”
I’ve begun following the teachings of Yongey Mingyur Rinpoche, a monk in the Tibetan Buddhist tradition. He has a wonderfully clear and approachable teaching style, with a gentle sense of humor.
His teaching on meditation practice is simply, “short time, many times.” We might think true meditation is about sitting for hours, but in reality a) few of us have those long periods to practice; b) we’re probably not prepared to focus for that long anyway; and c) we have to learn to meditate “anytime, anywhere” - to bring meditation into daily life, not just keep our practice on the cushion.
How Many Point of View Should You Have in a Novel?
This post was inspired by a question from my 100 Day Writing Challenge group. It’s not the first time I’ve heard it, though. It’s a tricky question. Some will say there are “rules” around it (like, no more than three POV characters per novel) but as with most “rules” of writing, you’ll find those rule-breakers everywhere. I’m sure you can think of a few!
My answer is: It depends.
Mid-Year Check-In + Best Books of 2025 I’ve Read So Far
Time for a mid-year check-in! Are you on track with your writing goals? Now is the time to think about your goals, and recalibrate them if necessary. No shame – you are where you are. Doing the 100 Day Writing Challenge with my fabulous group of writers has been a blessing in this regard. It’s kept me going on those days when I otherwise would have been tempted to avoid writing because I was tired, or faced a difficult scene, or would have preferred to watch tv.